When The Past Tries to Resurface

So two days ago I reconnected with a friend on facebook (one of the FEW things I like about facebook).  We talked and caught up a little bit but it was just great to know they were doing well.   Today I'm driving home and I get a facebook notification that I have a message.  I view the message and see its from a mutual friend of ours.  Let me be honest, this person is not a friend of mine (at least not anymore).  Long story short we were on good terms but he decided he didn't want to talk to me anymore so I quit talking to him.  His decision and I simply complied. For the sake of this rant lets call him "Terry".  So Terry decides to send me message saying "I see you and 'so and so' are friends.  Just want to see if you're well.  Hit me  back if you want".  I have not responded and have no intentions on responding.  I've already denied a previous follow request on Twitter and a friend request on Facebook.  Now you sending me a message on Facebook? No I do not want to hit you back.  I have no intentions of ever talking to you again.  Terry previously told me several years ago that we weren't really friends and didn't wish to communicate with me anymore.  So for him to attempt to contact me, yet again, irks me!  Not to mention he's the second person this week (that I care not to see or hear from ever again) to contact me via Facebook.


Facebook has a way of bringing people out of your past that you could seriously go the rest of your life (and probably all of eternity for some) without seeing or hearing from them again.  This happens to be one of those people.  Let me be clear, I have several people like this in my past but I DO NOT for one second wish any harm on them.  I wish them all the luck, blessings, and success beyond their imagination.  I just don't care to see or hear of them anymore.    My personal opinion about people like this is that they simply want to be nosey and see how well (or bad) you're doing.  Maybe to satisfy their ego or whatever insecurities they may have.  If I don't like you or we're not on good terms, I'm not going to connect with you online or in person.  I go my way and you go yours.  Simple as that right?  Obviously not.  

So not that I have completed my rant I am officially done with this situation.  NEXT!